Life of a Loner..

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

♣️(How we get to know each other)♣️

"We know each other by chance, we met each other by choice, we fall in love with each other by fate. And Now we are together, nothing can take u away from me"

"Before i know u, i told and promise myself dat i will never fall in love again. Because in my entire life i've always been hurt in love. Till i give up totally in pursuing any relationship. But after meeting & knowing you, i start to believe in love again. I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. I see you, i see hope.."

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(Facebook is where we first started - Add Friend / Chat

♣️(18/02/2013)♣️
One day, as i scroll through my Facebook newsfeed, i came across a posting of a vietnamese friend (Who also happens to be your friend too) and he is now in singapore for a vacation. He posted a picture of himself at Marina Bay Sands Promanade. Then i go to the comments section and there i saw your comment on his posting. I dont know what prompt me, but i decide to click on you profile to check you out. (And im glad i do that)

I browse through your FB walls and your picture album and realize that you too are in singapore. I dont really know for what purpose yoh are here for but it seems you have been in singapore for a few month at least. Then i see through all you pictures in your album. I was kinda attracted to you because you have a very cute adorable boyish looks. Your smile are sweet especially with the deep dimple on your cheek. You have this "Cat Like" cuteness charms in you. And you look very very young. I presume you must be in your late teens maybe 18 or 19 or maybe even younger. And the funny thing is that I dont even know if you are a gay person too or not. But that aside, i just feel that i must know you as a person first. The rest will comes later. My interest in you grows instantly that i click the 'Add Friend' button. I dont really expect you to accept my friend request actually. I just do it to try my luck with hopes you will accept my friend request.

♣️(19/02/2013 - 20/02/2013)♣️

To my greatest delight, within few minutes of adding u, u accepted my friend request and u even start to message me on FB immediately after. I felt so happy then.To be honest, i dont know why, but i really felt very happy to recieve ur FB msg at that time. I was smiling while reading ur msg. In it u say; "hi and thanks me for adding u up" and i say the pleasure is mine actually. Then we both give a basic introduction of ourself to each other, u told me that you are 20 years going 21 years old in December 2013 and your birthday is on (22 December 1992) after awhile, i decide to pluck up my courage and ask you the 'Question'. "I ask if you are gay as i am a gay person myself" and i feel these things need to be knows before we actually move further into our conversation. And then you answer me that you are Gay too. Then "i asked if you are attached or not as i dont want to become a cause of trouble chatting with someone else boyfriend." And you told me that you are single. I dont know why, but i felt happy hearing all your answer. I was jumping with joy deep inside (I feel that well there is a chance for me if i ever wanna date you.)

We chatted for quite awhile and you told me that you are here in Singapore because you are pursuing your "Advance Diploma" in (Hospitality & Tourism Management) at a Local Private College (Raffles College Of Higher Education). You just came to singapore on July 2012. And you plan to further your studies to Bachelor Degree after you completed your advance diploma. You say that life in Vietnam is very hard. It is even harder to get a stable job. The goverment is corrupted and not making any progress towards modernity And furthermore the street are not safe as there are crimes everywhere. On the other hand in Singapore, it is a modern, clean and safe city to live in. Transportation is very convenient (you can go anywhere in singapore by tthe MRT train), the crime rates here are also very low. And you can definitely see a better prospect here in singapore then in your hometown. You told me that if u graduate, you hope to be able to get a stable job here and continue living here. I encouraged you to study harder and achieve you dream. I also advise you that in order to get a job i Singapore, you must improve you english as almost everyone in singapore is english speaking. You told me that you want to improve your english and ask me to help by chatting more with you and correct you if u ever had any grammar or pronounciation mistakes. Of course i agree. Its juz another chance for me to chat more with you.

Then you told me that u feel very comfortable chatting with me. And then you told me that you needed some advise as you have been troubled by a particular issue lately. You asked me if i know anyone by the name of 'Damian' or better known in FB as 'Damian The Waffleboy'? I told you that the LGBT circle in singapore is very small. There is sure to be a connection among gays people be it through direct or mutual friends and cliques. Then i check through my FB friendlist and realize that yeah he is indeed in my FB friendlist. Not that i know him personally but i did saw him quite often at Clubs and bars that i frequented and we did not actually talk to each other. It is just a hi / bye kind of thing.

(Then you told me the full story of what has been troubling you);

Sometime in 'Late January 2013 to Early February 2013' you and you friend from cambodia went to a Local Gay Sauna called 'ABSOLUTE' - (pls read Absolute Gay Sauna) located at pagoda street in chinatown (Well ive been there a few times actually). It was you first time patronizing a gay sauna and you went there with one of your gay friend from Cambodia that you get to know online recently. Your purpose going there is to experience it first hand what a gay sauna is like and of course to find some random 'Hook Up'. Then as you were walking & cruising almost naked at the dark maze (with just a mini towel on your waist barely covering anything) your cambodia friends was approach by Damian. He asked your friend if he can have sex with you. As he was to shy to approach himself. Then your friend convey the message to you, and you immediately agrees. You, your friend and Damian went into one of the cabins and it is where Damian start to touch u, make u suck his dick and finally anal penetrating you all along while your cambodian friend is there watching everything while jerking off. (you told me that it was your first time ever had anyone penetrate your anal - So called virgin. How lucky is dat damn damian. And how unlucky of you to lost your purity at such a place to such a jerk.)

After the 'Hook Up' session with Damian at Absolut, you guys exchange number to keep in touch beyond. Within next few days you and him corresponded regularly via FB and sms. And then Damian says he like you and wanting to be your BF. He gave u loads of empty promises that tempt you. Being alone in Singapore, of course you agreed. Then few days later Damian text you and ask to meet up. You guys check in a budget hotel in geylang. There you guys had sex. The next day after checked out, u and damian parted ways and you went home. Then You texted him but he did not response. You tried Calling him but he did not answer. Damian literally went MIA.. He just dissapear with no wats you can get in touch with him. You feeling down, did not give up. U even went to Woodland just to meet him. Then after that few days later, damian resurface again. He texted you and asked for a meet up. Again you guys check in at a budget hotel and had sex. The next day damian left you at Bugis to meet his friends. And this time again he dissapear. Text and calls went unanswered. You were devastated. U feel that damian is using you only for sex and will only find you when he needed sex. Few days later you know me. And the rest is history. I advise you to forget about him and u listened and deleted him off your contact.

After that we both continue to chat with each other for few days straight. We will Wish each other good morning, good night and send some sweet greetings to each other.. Awww so sweet.While chatting, out of sudden, u popped up the question asking me if i wanna meet up with you. So i immediately answer "why not". At that time I may sound abit spotaneous but deep inside I was feeling over the moon and happy and even jumping with joy. But at the same time im also feeling nervous and scared too. Im Nervous because i've never do any random meet up with any stranger before, and i also felt scared because im afraid u couldnt accept my bad boy looks with my coloured hairs, heavily tattooed body and lots of piercing etc. But still i told myself that its just a meet up. So no harm. So we decided to set the date to meet up on 21 Feb 2013 at (Somerset 313) at 8.00pm

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INFORMATION;

(Absolute Gay Sauna)

'ABSOLUTE' - Located at Pagoda Street i Chinatown Is a mens sauna exclusively only for men (Particularly gay men). Entry is strictly by Membership only. And to be able to get a membership, we can simply walk in, pay a small amount of $18 for a 1 year membership and we will recieve full access to the facilities. For first timers, we might need to pay an additional $10 for 1 time entry (depending on the theme of the night) normally they will have a daily theme for the sauna. And price will depends on what time you enter, or what theme is on for the particular day. Most of the time, those who are under 25 yrs old (Called as cadets) gets free entry. It is for the purpose to make them come to the sauna And with their 'Cadets' presence in the sauna, it will definitely encourage more older mens who are better spender and seeking young fresh meat to satisfy their lust on. Some of the example of themes are as follows;

🔹 Trunk Night (Wearing Swimming Trunk get free entry)

🔹 Office Attire Night (Those in Office formal dressing gets complimentary drinks)

🔹 Army boys Night (NSF gets free entry)

🔹 Cadets Night (Those under 25 yrs old gets free entry) etc etc.

🔹 Foam Party (Nothing on all floor = NAKED)

🔹And many more theme in accordance to any festive season of the month

In general public eyes 'Absolute' is just a sauna or bath house for mens. where mens go for bubble bath, steam room, relax. But in the actual fact, discreetly from the outside, it is where Gay Mens will cruise around looking for 'Hook Up' fun and Sex. Actually truth be known, there is not much of a sauna facilities in there to really defines 'Sauna' the basic facilities in there includes, fresh towels, changing room & lockers, open concept hot showers, Steam Room (Hardly used by anyone), internet corner with 2 computer, Dark Maze (A Maze with no lighting or minimal lighting where there will be alot of naked mens standing by waiting to fondle, caress and be grope u suspecting passerby) & many cabins room (with low brown PVC covered mattress on the floor and unlimited supplies of Lubricant, Condoms & Toilet paper) and a rooftop bar where refreshment are served. All i all, it is a place where Gay mens will undress, get naked, shower and start cruising the dark maze for a "Fresh Meat". Then when a person saw someone that he is interested in, he will approach the person and start touching, groping and fondling, if the other party resist means he is not interested. Then he will move on to the next guy. But if the party responded by touching back or even not reacting or not resisting, it symbolize approval. Then the person will start to do all sort of sexual arousal contact with the person. And when both reached a certain 'High', they will then proceed on into one of the many cabins. In there is where sexual penetration will happens. Sometimes there are even 3somes, 4some or orgies activity going on. At times even in the open. Most times as you passed by the cabins, you can hear loud orgasm moans and groans of people having sex. Normally what happens there in the sauna, ends there. After any sexual contact is done, both will then part ways. Some will shower and go back, while others will stay on and look for the next person to have fun with.

With the blooming of the Gay Sauna everywhere, slowly one by one new sauna open. And it just promote the same thing which is Free Sexual Cruising for all gay person. Those responsible enough will do it the safe way. But some will not. It is not a crime to have fun once awhile. But if done regularly, it can become a dangerous habits. And most time it will tends to destroy relationships and the sacredness of sex. It just promote the ideas that it is ok to have consensual random sex with stranger. Whatsoever, it is just an experience. One who is wise enough will avoid these places at all cost. As i mentioned, it is ok to have fun and experience. But it shouldnt be an ongoing mindset.

Now slowly one by one the Gay Sauna start to close down. and it is a good news indeed. So we can now finally cut down on having random sex with stranger at same time lower our risk of contracting Sexually Transmitted Disease & HIV.