Me a happier and better man now!!

I'll confess dat on a few occasions i would slipped into 'Revenge Fantasies', wishing with more than a lil shame that i could be one of the Angry Bitches who would use Anything/Anyone to get at someone whom has hurt me Deeply. Holding down an ugly knot of hurt and anger that waits to erupt from.. (for me) a soured stomach.. hehe.


After a while, well not really a while but after a deep2 sane thoughts wrapped with damn hot tears flowing from my eyes, i realize that, i'm just as capable of causing hurt, speaking out in anger, making mistakes as the next person or anyone. then i can Begin to become more forgiving of myself & others.

:: The thing is You, Me, We have been angry with our parents, siblings, spouse, friends etc. But let's face it, we're not gonna make them Redo the past right? We have a choice and that is, personally....
- either hold on to the anger & allow it to poison our life (aged ourselves)
- or find a way to let go of our old grudges (sweet wrinklefree)

:: Yeah i agree its no small feat nor chicken feet to forgive those who have hurt us (Deeply) Just try, yes TRY putting ourselves in their shoes & Understand the Desperation, Fear or even Ignorance that may be the origin of their actions. When Truthfully consider whether..we could have done OR have done something similar, it becomes easier to forgive.

I don't know why i have this feeling that we're pretending that we aren't as flawed as the rest of humanity when we Refuse to Forgive. I think Forgiveness insists that we admit we're just like every other human being doing the best we can with what we know & experience.. (Self-Acceptance)

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Name: Ryan'iel Hiroshi
Known As: Ryan'iel, Ryan or Afad
Day I first cried: 1st August 1982
Race: Mixed Portuguese, Malay and Hispanic
Faith: Islam
Status: Single (And available, Ready to mingle)
Profession: Asst Tower Manager (MBS)
Scene: Alternative
Style: Modern Trendy
Height: 1.68
Weight: 65kg
Complexion: Fair Complexion
Hairstyle: Trendy short, Colourful
Eyes: Black
Tattoos: Lots of it
Piercing: Both earlobes
Smoking Habit: Occasionally
Drinking Habit: Occasionally
Best Attributes: Smile, Humour & Intelligence
Hobbies: Cycling, Swimming, Jogging, Tanning, Shopping, Reading, Travelling and surfing the net.


Flamboyant, Down to earth, Clean freak, Cool, Funny, Extroverted, Friendly, Romantic, Loving, Passionate, Honest and Generous

Dat's how I extend myself 2 the world with the same basic expectations of others who wish 2 return the same courtesy.

Dat said, I pride myself in being more proactive & rational in understanding all the different charms and cultures. Never been satisfied with my own perspectives, I am usually a keen learner of different ideas - approaching them with respect, tact & an open mind.

Conflicts are usually handled objectively with diplomatic end in mind. Don't be put off by my eloquence & flamboyant character as it usually rewards more than it punish. I am comfortable in being affectionate & I am not afraid 2 show others that I care. A few kind words, a reassuring hug & compliments to go along are few ways to let my compassion show.

While I am a high maintenance guy with my vanity obsession, I have come 2 acquire a new level of appreciation 4 a no-fuss, low-drama approach with minimum “Boo-hoos” & maximum “Oh-yeah”. I may exude catlike playfulness & being mischievous at times, there lies a sentimental intellectual beneath the mild demeanour.

I don't believe in intellectual superiority though, only dormant potential in every person. Hence, there is no room for arrogance, segmented respect or condescending attitude.

My Biggest lesson in love is to “Forgive and forgo the loser.”
My Biggest lesson in life is to “Live life to the fullest and having No regrets.”

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